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Becoming fully yourself

Women. Men. Roles. Habits. You can. You can’t. You are allowed to. You are not allowed to. You do it and you are praised for it. You do it and you are told it’s not for you. You should. You shouldn’t. Although you are already doing it some tells you, you are not able to […]

Flow of emotions

We need to understand the world around us, let it be work, business or private life. When we don’t, we get frustrated, irritated, puzzled and try to gain understanding as soon as possible. In best case we ask. Ask for clarification, a different explanation, something we can relate to more. When not asking then we […]

Illusion – a tool or pure lie

This I just saw on a social media platform: ‘What makes desirable to be desirable? From that the woman without sparing money, time and effort, and often even enduring pain, tries to present her advantages in the most tempting way possible and to minimize her disadvantages. Every single woman has disadvantages, but the man doesn’t […]

Clearing the fog around Help

When we are babies we accept help from parents, grandparents, siblings. Of course, no baby would survive without being fed, sheltered, protected. Also no one would learn any life skills if adults wouldn’t show, teach, tell them. It is all natural. When we grow a bit but are still kids, we go through a stage […]

Opinion – clearing some myth

Mostly everyone is generous in giving, sharing, offering opinions, even pushing theirs onto others, regardless whether asked for it or not. Often some does it out of a fully convinced self-importance. An opinion, by definition, is a judgement, a viewpoint, or a statement that is not conclusive. It is a view or judgement formed about […]

The green-eyed monster

Psychologists are saying that it is a natural and perceived to be negative feeling. They established categories:  normal and abnormal. Within these two categories six types are identified: rational, family, pathological, sexual, romantic, power. They say it is normal to feel it in a close relationship. Jealousy. What makes it normal? Is it that many […]

Misconceptions about a word

From the moment of birth, one’s conditioning starts. That means that the young adult you become has all that engraved, good, bad, personally suitable or not. One thing, out of numerous, that is not taught or ‘advertised’ is that because your mum, dad, family is one way, it does not mean you are exactly, or […]

Fallen angels – a ‘what if’ concept

In a recent discussion where we were talking about life, relationships, sex, music, he showed me a song. In its lyrics fallen angels were mentioned … that started some thoughts in me … What if we – people –  were all fallen angels? What if we really all are children of God? What if life, […]