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The green-eyed monster

Psychologists are saying that it is a natural and perceived to be negative feeling. They established categories:  normal and abnormal. Within these two categories six types are identified: rational, family, pathological, sexual, romantic, power. They say it is normal to feel it in a close relationship. Jealousy. What makes it normal? Is it that many […]

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Misconceptions about a word

From the moment of birth, one’s conditioning starts. That means that the young adult you become has all that engraved, good, bad, personally suitable or not. One thing, out of numerous, that is not taught or ‘advertised’ is that because your mum, dad, family is one way, it does not mean you are exactly, or […]

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Not knowing – mistake – sin

One often falls into the trap of assuming. We assume we understand the same by an expression. We assume we have the same ideas, limits, borders, ethical standards. Stop hurting yourself, your partner, your relationships. Stop assuming! Hardly anyone is a mind reader so don’t expect your partner to know what you think. It can […]

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Ins and outs of a breakup

In my video on YouTube last week, I was talking about breakups, about the actual way of how to do it ‘well’. That is one (crucial) part of the whole process. Obviously, there is, as with everything, more to it. Like there are people who always break up just before the relationship would get to […]

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An often hidden ‘ghost’

Have you ever heard the expression ‘trauma response’? It is mostly used for the emotional response to some terrible events, like an accident, rape or natural disaster. On a seemingly lighter level, agreeing to things just to keep the peace, is actually also a trauma response that becomes part of life of a relationship dependent […]